Indecisive stage
Why should we consider adoption at all to become
parents?
Parenthood is parenthood. No matter whether
achieved through adoption or biological processes. Adoption is another
viable alternative to parenthood.
For childless couples is infertility treatment not
a solution?
Yes it is. However couples have to draw a line
& fix limits on expenses & time spent. The desire to have a
biological child is normally so high that they do not mind spending
time and money on infertility treatments endlessly even when the chances
are very very low.
Why should not we consider adoption after all other
options to have a biological child have been tried.
Couples need to plan their family well ahead.
A time limit should be set for other options and adoption should be
considered as early as possible. By deciding early we can ensure that
the child gets parents, not grandparents!
My husband and I discuss about adoption only when
no one else is around. Is it the same with everyone considering adoption.
Of late, attitudinal changes in the society are
aiding open acceptance of adoption. Adoption is no longer a hush-hush
topic, especially in Bangalore.
Some of the prospective parents stay confused. Why?
Lack of awareness. Su-datta produces awareness
to gynaecologists to follow the code of Medical Ethics, which states
the doctors must not be influenced merely by motives of profit. Su-datta
produces awareness to couples to decide fast on expanding the family
(or not). Enough awareness can reduce the confusion considerably.